What Element Is Your Love?

Your Love Element Is Fire

In love, you are a true listener and totally present. For you, love is all about feeling more alive than you've ever felt. You attract others with your joy and passion. Your flirting style is defined by your strong ability to communicate. Fun and play are the cornerstones of your love life. And while your flame may burn too brightly, it's part of your appeal. You connect best with: Wood Avoid: Water You and another Fire element: will likely burn out quickly

What Element Is Your Love?

On the road pet peeves. . .

As I was traveling home to Missouri for the holidays, I am reminded once again of the "fun" of driving with people who lack the common sense needed to be on the road.

• Joggers / Bicycle Riders - I applaud your need for exercise to keep yourself fit or even to get you where you need to go. However, here's a couple of things to keep in mind. If you are jogging, you run in the opposite direction of traffic, so that you can watch oncoming cars and avoid accidents. Remember the car is bigger and tougher than you are. If you are on a bicycle, stay in your lane or please have the courtesy to move over when you are biking with your buddies. I know you have a right to the road too, but causing a traffic jam will not earn you brownie points. To joggers & bicyclists both, for crying out loud when you are out at night wear something bright so I can see you. I almost didn't some crazy nut tonight that was jogging wearing all black!
• Left Lane Slow Pokes - did you know that it's a law to be in the right lane if you're driving below the speed limit? Also for those stretch of highways that have a second lane at certain locations - pull the heck over to that lane so I can get around. Geez!
• No Signal Light - I realize that phone call you are making on your cell phone is "important" but learn how to use that all important signal light. If you're not on your phone, there is no reason not to use that signal light whatsoever. It's there for a reason folks!
• Cruise - Don't you just love being behind some nut that doesn't know what cruise control is? It's rather simple to use and saves on using the brake for those behind you. Pick a speed and keep it!
• Brake Happy People - Why are some people in love with their brakes? Old or young it doesn't seem to matter.
• There Are Mirrors?? - Yes, there are. Use them the next time you want to switch lanes or back up, please!
• Turning Onto Another Road - Don't ya just love those nuts that just have to pull out in front of you and then slow way down. Thanks a lot there buddy!!!

Well, I feel better. I'm sure I've left some people out, but this is a start. LOL

Try to do better / New Year's Resolution. . .

I know I've been a little lazy about posting on my blog this month. The company I work for had a big move to a brand new building....and was that ever fun...not! LOL Then I turned right around and went home for the holidays to Missouri.

Going home is always fun for me no matter what time of year. Have you never noticed that when you move and return home you're more popular than when you lived there? Everyone wants to do something - breakfast/lunch/dinner/etc. Unfortunately, there's only so many hours in the day and I'm unable to see or visit with everyone.

Thanks to Drywall Mom for checking up on me when I got behind in posting. This coming year I will try to write at least 2-3 postings a week. May be short & sweet or rather long. You'll have to stop by & see. If you have a suggestion on what you'd like me to write, drop me a note. I can't guarantee I'll answer everything, but I'll try.

Hope everyone has a wonderful & safe new year!

Tunnel Vision Shoppers. . .

No matter where you go there they are...the tunnel vision shoppers. You know the ones I mean, that "lovely" person or persons that are right at the spot you need to be when shopping, and they will not even acknowledge that you are there so you can grab what you want & go. Do I need a neon sign for you to see me? Some bells & whistles to announce my presence? Even when I say excuse me I'm ignored!!! So frustrating!! I swear one of these days I'm going to walk right up to the a-holes and say "get the f#$@ out of the way!" Well, I certainly feel better. . .thanks for listening!

What Christmas Song Are You???

Your Christmas Song Is

Feliz Navidad Feliz Navidad Prospero año y Felicidad I want to wish you a Merry Christmas From the bottom of my heart At your place, Christmas is different every year You like to throw out tradition, and have your own wacky holiday

What Christmas Carol Are You?

What flavor of Ben & Jerry's are you. . . ?

You Are Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough Ice Cream

A classic and an original, no wonder everyone snakes your style!

What Flavor Ben and Jerry's Ice Cream Are You?

It almost happened. . . / A Thanksgiving day bit of trivia. . .

Did you know that Benjamin Franklin wanted the turkey to be our national bird instead of the bald eagle?? Makes you wonder doesn't it?

Happy Thanksgiving!!!

Tis the season. . .

With Thanksgiving fast approaching, it reminds me that Christmas is just around the corner. I usually have my shopping started by now, but unfortunately I'm at square one. Is it just me or does it get harder with each passing year to figure out what everyone wants and within a budget? I also find it's easier to shop for the women than it is for the men. Why is that? Of course you can always ask the guys what they want. . .you'll always get the same reply "I don't need anything." I'm always tempted to do that, but I know they'll pout when everyone else is unwrapping their gifts and they have none. Still I am curious to see that expression just the same. Shame on me! LOL

The one thing that really bugs me about Christmas or any holiday for that matter are the commercials trying to help the men figure out what to buy us. Ever notice how the jewelry commercials are the #1 suggestion. Why? Do we really need jewelry for every single holiday or occasion? If that's the case we'd have our own jewelry stores and could swap/borrow with our other female friends.

What's the worse gift you've ever been given? For me it's stationary. I'm not much of a writer as you can tell from my blog. However, once I get started I find it's a breeze, but it's usually when I'm on the computer - not writing out my thoughts to a family member/friend. I'll admit I've been naughty the few times I did receive stationary as a gift....I regifted it to someone who could use it. Regifting can be great sometimes, as long as I don't get caught. LOL

Well, that's all for now. I could ramble a bit more, but I think I'll save it for later. Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

People Magazine's Sexiest Man Alive 2005.....Amen!!

Fun Movie Fact. . .

Did you know that Truman Capote originally wanted Marilyn Monroe to be the leading lady for his novel "Breakfast at Tiffany's" when it was made into a movie, instead of Audrey Hepburn? Boggles the mind doesn't it? Can't imagine anyone but Audrey in that role!

Mid-Life Crisis??

Is it just me, or is Tom Cruise having a mid-life crisis? I remember the day when this guy was the king of cool with a killer smile. Now every time I see him, I just shake my head and wonder what went wrong. Has he always been this way and I'm just now seeing it, or is it a mid-life crisis? The age difference between him & Katie Holmes (oops, now it's Kate!) doesn't bother me, but the fact that the 2 of them together just doesn't add up does. To me they look like brother & sister, instead of soon to married/madly in love people. Am I the only one that doesn't see an ounce of chemistry between them? Then the fact that he is practically dictating what will/won't go on in the relationship is almost medieval. I could go on and on and on...the Oprah show, the pregnancy, etc. I don't like to pick on a person's religion, but could this whole mid-life crisis & scientology be a seriously bad combination. . . . I just don't get it. Could someone please explain what in the sam hill is wrong with this boy?

News From Down Under....

Beer as reward for bringing back Jesus Statue

An Australian beer brewer is rewarding 6 crates of beer to the person who finds the stolen statue of baby Jesus. The statue was stolen from an altar which was established by the South Australian Brewing Company for the upcoming Christmas days. According to the director of the company security cameras caught a man climbing over a fence and framing the statue out of the crib. “We are worried about the well-being of the baby Jesus and we ask for a quick and safe return”, director Powell said. “We are rewarding 6 crates of beer to the person who brings back the statue. Although the idea of visiting the purgatory should be enough for the thief.”

Today's Funny - 14 Reasons To Allow Drinking On The Job. . . .

1. It's an incentive to show up.
2. It reduces stress.
3. It leads to more honest communications.
4. It reduces complaints about low pay.
5. It cuts down on time off because you can work with a hangover.
6. Employees tell management what they think, not what management wants to hear.
7. It helps save on heating costs in the winter.
8. It encourages carpooling.
9. Increases job satisfaction because if you have a bad job you don't care.
10. It eliminates vacations because people would rather come to work.
11. It makes fellow employees look better.
12. It makes the cafeteria food taste better.
13. Bosses are more likely to hand out raises when they have had a couple of drinks.
14. Salary negotiations are a lot more profitable.

What Color Heart Do You Have?

Your Heart Is Pink

In relationships, you like to play innocent - even though you aren't. Each time you fall in love, it's like falling for the first time. Your flirting style: Coy Your lucky first date: Picnic in the park Your dream lover: Is both caring and dominant What you bring to relationships: Romance

What Color Heart Do You Have?

Have You Ever....??? (Part Two)

So I went down to the leasing office after work today & spoke with the leasing manager; a very sweet lady I might add. That always is helpful instead of getting some cranky person. Anyway I explained to her my situation that I didn't think she had the right apt when she posted the note. After talking with me I believe she agreed. The kicker is....the question she asked me...."do you have a kid?" No I said with an "a-ha" thought in my mind, it's not me!!!! Although I do like to think of my cat & fish as my children, but that's another story. I did tell her though that if it did turn out to be me to let me know. Never hurts to earn some brownie points!!

The Keys to Your Heart

You are attracted to good manners and elegance. In love, you feel the most alive when your lover is creative and never lets you feel bored. You'd like to your lover to think you are stylish and alluring. You would be forced to break up with someone who was emotional, moody, and difficult to please. Your ideal relationship is open. Both of you can talk about everything... no secrets. Your risk of cheating is zero. You care about society and morality. You would never break a commitment. You think of marriage as something precious. You'll treasure marriage and treat it as sacred. In this moment, you think of love as something you thirst for. You'll do anything for love, but you won't fall for it easily.

What Are The Keys To Your Heart?

Have You Ever...?

Have you ever had a neighbor in a complex that reports you at the slightest noise? I've lived in this particular apt complex for almost 2 years now, & have never had a complaint brought against me in any way. In fact in the past 5 years of renting no one has ever issued a complaint. So about a month ago, I get new neighbors right below me. Seemed nice enough, a middle aged couple that enjoys singing karoki accompanied by their guitar & keyboard. Doesn't bother me in the slightest since they respect everyone's need for peace & quiet during middle/late at night. Here's the kicker, they have reported me (at least I assume it's them) for being too noisy. When I came home Friday evening, there was a note from the leasing office informing me to keep the noise down. I have never had my tv/stereo loud enough to shake the walls or to disturb anyone. Unfortunately the only person I can talk to about this is the leasing manager, who won't be in until Monday. When I called the leasing office Friday evening, they informed that they didn't know the source of the noise, and the note was probably posted on more than one door. In fact the ladies that work at the leasing office were a bit shocked that I got this letter. I'm just chomping at the bit to talk to the manager on Monday. I'll be damned if this is going to go against my rental record, since I don't believe I was being that noisy. It's an apartment complex for crying out loud. You've got a variety of noises - babies crying, the occasional argument, tv you can hear ever so slightly, someone doing their laundry or running the dishwasher, etc. Maybe the people below me have never rented before...? Who knows. I just feel better venting. Thanks for reading. Update will surely follow!

What Does Your Birthdate Mean?

Your Birthdate: October 30

You have the type of personality that people either love or hate. You're opinionated, dramatic, intense, and very outspoken. And some people can't get enough of you - they're totally addicted. Others, well, they wish you were a little more reserved. Your strength: Your flair Your weakness: If you think it, you say it Your power color: Scarlet red Your power symbol: Inverted triangle Your power month: March

What Does Your Birth Date Mean?

What Kind of Candy Are You?

Reeses Peanut Butter Cups

Very popular, one of you is not enough.

What Kind of Candy Are You?

Just a couple of pet peeves about the radio stations these days...

As I listen to the local radio station every morning while getting ready for the day, on the way to work, & back again....I thought I'd share just a couple of things that really get on my nerves about the station. (As well as most stations in general)

• Is it just me or do you get tired of hearing the same songs every single day? You know the ones I mean, the "nails on the chalk board / if I hear it one more time I'll scream" songs. The morning talk shows I swear hit repeat on the songs they play in between the chat times. When I first heard, Rob Thomas' song "Don't Want To Be Lonely No More" I thought it was a cool song, but now I'll change the station or listen to a CD. So crazy!
• My other pet peeve is the morning talk show itself. Same shit, different day every single morning. Get some new material people!! And really does every station have to be a copycat in the format of the show? Then there are the days I don't want to listen to them chatter on and on....just play more music!!

Well, I feel better. Guess I'll keep more CD's handy in the future! LOL

What cute animal are you?

You Are A: Squirrel!

Squirrels are quick and cheerful animals who spend their time scurrying, scavenging, and playing. As a squirrel, you are often seen jumping happily from branch to branch up in the treetops. Squirrels are foragers searching for nuts and seeds, and they are social animals often seen chasing and playing with other squirrels.

You were almost a: Kitten or a Monkey
You are least like a: Turtle or a BunnyDiscover What Cute Animal You Are!

I don't know whether to think this is funny or not! I've been told I can be a little squirrely, but how'd they know? LOL What cute animal are you?

You had me from hello. . .

What mixed drink are you?

You Are a Margarita

You aren't just the life of the party, you are the party! You mix a good drink, bust out some great music, and know how to get down.

What Mixed Drink Are You?

What's Your Power Color?

Your Power Color Is Red-Orange

At Your Highest: You are warm, sensitive, and focused on your personal growth. At Your Lowest: You become defensive and critical if you feel attacked. In Love: You are loyal - but you demand the respect you deserve. How You're Attractive: You are very affectionate and inspire trust. Your Eternal Question: "Am I Respected?"

What's Your Power Color?

What Part of Fall Are You?

You Are Apple Cider

Smooth and comforting. But downright nasty when cold.

What Part of Fall Are You?

10 Favorites:
Favorite Season: Summer
Favorite Sport: Baseball
Favorite Time of Day: Night
Favorite Month: June
Favorite Actor: Matthew McConaughey
Favorite Actress: Charlize Theoron
Favorite Ice Cream: Chocolate Chip Cookie Dough
Favorite Food: Chocolate
Favorite Drink: Margarita
Favorite Place: My hometown

9 Currents:
Current Feeling: Mellow
Current O/S: what?
Current Windows Open: MS Works & AOL
Current Drink: Water
Current Time: 5:00pm
Current Mobile(s) Used: T-Mobile
Current Show on TV: Mad Tv
Current Thought: I wish I were going out tonight
Current Clothes: T-shirt & sweatpants

8 Firsts:
First Nickname: P. A. Appleberry
First Kiss: A lady never tells...
First Crush: Nathan Selby
First Computer: Packard Bell
First Vehicle I drove: 1978 Olds Delta 88
First Job: Bookkeeper
First Movie: Something Disney I am sure...
First Pet: English Pointer named Buck
First Alcoholic Beverage: Beer

7 Lasts:
Last Chai (Tea): Haven't tried it yet
Last Movie: Two For The Money
Last Time I Drove: About 3 hours ago
Last Time Shaved: This morning
Last Web Site Visited: Amazon.com
Last Software Installed: HP Scanner installing software
Last Pill I Had: Aspirin, earlier today

6 Have You Evers:
Have You Ever Broken the Law: Hmmmm.....maybe....
Have You Ever Been Drunk: Definitely!
Have You Ever Climbed a Tree: Yes I have
Have You Ever Kissed Someone You Didn't Know: Yes
Have You Ever Been in the Middle/Close to Gunfire or Bomb Blast: No
Have You Ever Broken Anyone's Heart: Not that I know of

5 Things:
Things You Can Hear Right Now: TV, computer fan whirring, cat meowing
Things on Your Computer Table: Paper, pictures, pen, CDs
Things on Your Bed: comforter, sheets, pillows, quilt
Things You Ate Today: McDonald's Chicken McNuggets & Fries
Things in Mind: Tomorrow is my b-day!

4 Places You Have Been Today: bank, Target, the mall, Wal-Mart

3 People You Can Tell Anything To: Mom, Steve, Eric

2. Choices:
Black or White: black
Hot or Cold: hot

1 Thing You Want To Do Before You Die:
Jump out of a plane...

Chinese Astrology....

Unlike our monthly Horoscope signs (mine being Scorpio), the Chinese have one animal per year. Below is the description of someone born in 1976....the dragon! You'll learn a little about me, and maybe yourself if you were also born in that year. At the very bottom of this post is the website link to learn more. Enjoy!

The Dragon is one of the most powerful and lucky Signs of the Chinese Zodiac. Its warm heart makes the Dragon's brash, fiery energy far more palatable. This is a giving, intelligent and tenacious Sign that knows exactly what it wants and is determined to get it. Dragons possess a certain natural, charming charisma that ensures they can always influence their peers and often find themselves the center of attention in social situations. This Sign is truly blessed, too; Dragons are considered to be very lucky in love! The Dragon's friends are always keen to hear what this firebrand has to say and when it comes to dispensing advice, the Dragon has the floor.

Its ego can get in the Dragon's way, but even so, this larger-than-life creature has a knack for initiating projects and keeping the troops motivated. According to Dragons, it's their natural born right to lead the way -- because who else could do it so surely and so well? As lucky as they are, Dragons have a good chance of achieving considerable material wealth during their lifetimes, although it isn't mere money that's this Sign's main motivation. Power is what the Dragon wants and truly believes it deserves. Dragons are quite the opportunists, forever searching for ways in which to consolidate their considerable power. Contrary to all this strength and fire, a weakened Dragon is a sad sack, a creature that refuses to take defeat with even a modicum of grace.

The role of leader is the only one the Dragon wants, the better from which to give orders and be king of the hill. They make solid leaders, too, knowing instinctively what needs to be done to stay on top. Crossing the Dragon is never a good idea -- this beast can singe! A valuable life lesson for this clever creature would be to absorb the principles of flexibility, compassion and tolerance. Being high and mighty can serve to inspire others, but it also keeps Dragons from living their lives to the fullest. If Dragons can learn to balance their quest for success with an appreciation for the little things, their life will be more than worthwhile.
The most compatible match for a Dragon is the Monkey or the Rat.

http://chinese.astrology.com

Seven Things. . . .

Seven Things I Want To Do Before I Die -

• Marry & Have My Own Family - know this could count as 2 things, but can't have one without the other....at least for me anyway. How you want to live makes no difference to me. To each his/her own I always say!
• Travel Overseas - preferably to Ireland, Spain, Italy, & Australia. (Note to self - get a passport first. LOL)
• Reconcile with those I have lost contact with due to arguments, & I really miss them.
• Take more time to stop and smell the roses.
• Purchase a home of my own.
• Write more - poetry to be precise.
• Try new things - go to the theater, try exotic foods, etc.

Seven Things I Cannot Do -

• Reach things high on a shelf....I'm 5'4"
• Suppress my laughter
• Resist a sale on movies, music, or books. Especially books!
• Draw
• Play Chess
• Resist Chocolate
• Tell someone I love "no". However I do believe this is something I will work on! Can't do everything all the time. = )

Seven Things That Attract Me To The Opposite Sex -

• Sense of humor
• Compassion
• Communicator / Listener
• Honesty
• Smile
• Eyes
• Love of Animals - Dogs & Cats especially

Seven Things I Say Most Often -

• Groovy!
• It's all good!
• What's up?!?
• What in the Sam Hill?
• Sweet!
• What were you thinking?
• It's 5:00 somewhere!

Seven Celebrity Crushes -

• Matthew McConaughey
• Stuart Townsend
• Keanu Reeves
• Johnny Depp
• Luka on ER
• George Clooney
• Orlando Bloom

Remakes & Sequels....

Sometimes originals should be left alone when it comes to movies. Take this new guy that will be playing James Bond....what's-his-name (not even worth remembering)..!! Sean Connery is and will always be the only James Bond I'll ever watch!

Then there are the constant remakes & retelling of certain people that really lived such as: Jesse James, Wyatt Earp, The Alamo, etc. Come on how many different ways can you tell one story!!

One more thing before I finish my little rant - do we have to have one certain genre that dominates every year?!? Sometimes it's movies on war, horror, and bore. Geez! Whatever happened to the good old days of Hollywood when most of your movies had happy endings! It's fiction for crying out loud! Who wants to see real life on screen? You want to see reality that's not your own? Watch TV! There's too much of that too! Get a new storyline! A nice romantic movie would be nice for a change. I know I'm looking forward to the new movie about Johnny & June Carter Cash....maybe there's hope yet!

Whew! I feel better.... Thanks for stopping by!

Fun Movie Fact Of The Week

Did you know that Marlon Brando was originally supposed to play The Sundance Kid in the movie Butch Cassidy & The Sundance Kid (1969)? However, Paul Newman insisted that Robert Redford get the part. As much as I enjoy Brando's movies, I can't imagine anyone else but Robert Redford in that particular role. Can you?

Fun Movie Fact of the Week -

Did you know that Matthew McConaughey was originally supposed to play Kiefer Sutherland's part in the movie "A Time To Kill" (1996)? However, he convinced the director, producer, Warner Bros., etc that he could do the role of Jake Brigance. One more fun fact on this movie - Val Kilmer tried out for the part of Jake Brigance also. What a different movie that would have been had Val gotten the part....

Isn't Ironic....?

• Family / Friends say..."you'll find that special someone someday." Just when exactly is someday?
• When you get to work you clock-in by what your watch says because it runs a little slower. However, you go by what the office clock says at the end of the day because it's 5 minutes faster.
• The movie critics rave about a movie saying how "wonderful" it is - you go to see it and absolutely hate it. You love a movie and the critics rip it to shreds.
• When the cell phone was first created I believe it was intended to be used in case of emergency. Nowadays everyone & there uncle uses it for every purpose under the sun and everywhere imaginable. Do you really need a cell phone that - takes pictures, video, & with internet access? Come on people! Geez!
• When you're in a hurry...no one else is!

What do you find ironic?

God Be With You My Love...

God be with you my love,
for those moments when we are apart.
May He watch over you from up above,
and you be forever in my heart.
For you are so special to me, my dear,
and I cherish every moment that you are near.
The tranquil music that plays as we dance
feels like time standing still if for only that moment in time.
Was our meeting one of chance?
Do I have your heart? For I know that you have mine.
But until we meet again it is you I will be thinking of
And may God be with you my love.

Today's Point To Ponder -

Have the latest in cars/trucks/SUVs come without turn signals, or are people to busy driving & chatting on their cell phone...?

Fun Movie Fact Of the Week....

In the movie Smokey & The Bandit (1977) there is a scene where Frog's car is in the process of being stolen on the side of the road. If you pay attention to Jackie Gleason's gun belt....it disappears for a few seconds then reappears.

Friendship...?

So last night I'm in a chat room with my friend M & a sweet Irishman named G..... We're chatting along...discussing just about any topic that popped up. M & I have been friends for over 5 years, we've always teased (I thought in a harmless manner) each other about various things....no harm in it right? G & I were teasing her about how she behaves when she drinks. Next thing I know...G & I get booted out of the chat room and a nasty email never to contact M again. Now if she had simply said "don't tease me about that" or something similiar to that affect I would have stopped and moved on to the next topic. No problem. Instead I get treated in a rather harsh manner and a friendship ended.

The point to ponder today....if someone is willing to break off a 5 year friendship over something trivial....was she ever your friend to begin with?